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If you search GayFriend in the dictionary, you'll find the following definition: the one whom you'll ask for advice about everything and the one whom you'll listen to only half of the time, that you'll go back to him running in tears as he says "I told you so". As being a GayFriend myself to many girlfriends, might as well take the opportunity to have a chat about a juicy and grown up topic. Might as well call it our GayTalk article. What do you guys say? These articles are  NOT SAVE FOR WORK so be careful if you're reading these lines next to a nun on the bus home. I don't know you, but might as well keep it simple, chill and you and I will get along just fine. Deal? Plus, don't take the following too seriously, I'm trying to put humor in touchy subjects. 

 

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GayTalk #3 : When your mouth is full – Part 1

What's great with oral sex is that everyone can enjoy it; by giving head or by receiving it. For today's GayTalk, let's talk about the "persons-0106" and those "persons-0107" in terms of blowjobs and cunnilingus. Since there's a lot to cover, I shall start with anything that touches the blowjob subject then move onto cunnilingus for our next article. 

If it smells, don't even bother

Oral sex minus good hygiene is like a cake without its icing. Pretty boring and it doesn't taste the same. And yes, you have to communicate with your partner, it's part of the game. Some would prefer to give head without the use of a condom, when for others, condom is mandatory. Well here, that's your personal choice depending on your situation as well, bottom line; speak out if there's something you aren't ok with, make sure your partner respects you and honors it since the start. And also, don't be shy in mentioning certain aspects of a blowjob you can't do or simply won't do. By doing so, you'll definitely avoid weird moments during that excercise. 

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The use of teeth, you shall avoid… saliva you shall use

I mean teeth and fellatio don't mix. Insure your precious white teeth aren't in the way if you're giving head. If you can, take them off. God didn't invited dentures for no good reasons you know; this can truly help you out. Alright this is BS; in truth, just be careful so that your teeth aren't brushing against the penis; it's like sucking on a Popsicle. Also, saliva will become your best friend during a blowjob. I'm not saying here you should become a lama and dirty the sheets; but a mouth with lots of saliva can be stimulating for your partner. It's like Nutella on a toast: don't be afraid to spread a thick layer on it sweetie. 

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You have to hands… start using them

Unless you were born with only one arm, try to avoid in resting your hands along your partner's legs. I'm not saying you should start a game of Candy Crush at the same time, but your hands can equally get to work. Like, you can massage your partner's testicles. Don't handle the latter as if you'd knead bread, but more as if you'd pet a kitten's head; same texture anyway right? If you wish to push the boundary even further, lower two fingers on the perineum, you know the muscle between the testicles and anus… During sexual intercourse, that muscle inflates and increases the orgasm once stimulated. Takey our fingers and apply a bit/lots of pressure by doing circular movements, by also continuing giving head to your partner. Listen and watch your partner's reaction, you'll be surprised. And if he's in the mood, a little finger down the anus never killed nobody.

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Deepthroathing like a champ

Usually the cock is the most sensible part. You can then softly lick the latter by also doing a handjob to finish the job with some deepthroat action. I mean that goes if you're able and willing to do it. For those who have no clue what's a deep throat, is simply to push as far as possible the penis in your mouth/throat. For many guys, this technique is very arousing but not everyone possesses that talent. Some might feel the need to gag and that's completely fine. Your boyfriend would prefer if you don't deepthroat him aka not throwing up on him… well it's logical.

Small tip: as you start deep throating, as you go in, EXHALE! 

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Be as diversified as a Lucky Charm cereal bowl

The pressure you use with the help of your lips on his penis helps immensely. Don't be scared of putting some pressure, this isn't a banana you have in your mouth. There's also the visual contact with your partner and say nasty stuff during a blowjob that can be arousing: according to your partner, once again, communication is key. Personally, whenever I'll do that, I feel as if I'm a frog stuck in an exorcism doing a casting couch for a porn. I mean, you just gotta feel it.

 

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Alright, I think we've covered everything. All featured tips may not necessarily apply to all guys. It's a give or take situation. Evidently the best way to satisfy your guy is to communicate with him and see what he likes when he's been giving head. Don't go to far, our cunnilingus article will follow shortly ; and you might wanna make your boyfriend read the article. Alright, adios!

 

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